{"id":155,"date":"2017-05-31T00:10:53","date_gmt":"2017-05-31T04:10:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mendingmisconceptions.com\/?p=155"},"modified":"2017-05-31T00:10:53","modified_gmt":"2017-05-31T04:10:53","slug":"there-are-some-cool-strangers-out-there","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/?p=155","title":{"rendered":"There are some cool strangers out there"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This was originally posted on May 28, 2017, at 5:00 PM on blogger (this was also the last entry posted there).<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Last Monday, I was on my way home (to my actual home, not the dorm) after my first, and painful final exam of the semester.&nbsp; I needed to get my eye drops from my mom.&nbsp; And even though it was one of those days of near continuous rain, I was excited because I was at last finished with U . S.&nbsp; History class, and for the home-cooked meal I knew awaited me.<\/p>\n<p>My excitement started to dim, however, upon entering the subway and hearing the announcements about train delays and rerouting.&nbsp; But I took it in stride and decided to stick with the messed up train line rather than walking in the rain to another station.<\/p>\n<p>A few stops before Bowling Green, the last stop in Manhattan, the conductor made an announcement informing us that we wouldn&#8217;t know whether or not the train would be heading into Brooklyn until we&#8217;d gotten to the stop.&nbsp; I, and many of the other patrons on the train, were not pleased.&nbsp; So, as I mentally cursed at myself for my laziness, I got off of the train and planned my next actions.&nbsp; I knew I could transfer to the train I needed at that station, I just didn&#8217;t know where the train was.&nbsp; But as I adjusted my bag and prepared to ask someone for directions, someone approached me instead.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hey,&#8221; the person said.&nbsp; &#8220;Are you trying to get to another train?&#8221; Or that was the jist of what he asked.<\/p>\n<p>I said yes, told him which train I needed and asked if I could take his arm after he offered to assist me.&nbsp; As we walked, we talked, about writing, irritation with the train, school, the city.&nbsp; It was fun (well, as fun as a meandering journey through a big train station can be).&nbsp; But it was a nice, normal conversation.&nbsp; He even gave me a few suggestions on how to get into freelance editing.<\/p>\n<p>There was one point, near the end of our interaction, that I thanked him for not taking on that patronizing tone people tend to use with children.&nbsp; He may have thought it a little odd, but took it in stride.&nbsp; I don&#8217;t encounter many people, strangers in particular, who talk to me as though I&#8217;m a normal person.&nbsp; It&#8217;s usually &#8220;you&#8217;re so brave&#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;I can&#8217;t even imagine&#8230;&#8221; or, even when discussing school or occupation, there&#8217;s sometimes a condescending air about the person.&nbsp; It may not be intentional but its there.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s not the point of the post.&nbsp; With the many irritating experiences I rant about, I like to acknowledge the good or entertaining moments (like <a href=\"https:\/\/mendingmisconceptions.com\/2017\/05\/30\/to-margaret-and-roman-two-of-my-favorite-strangers\/\">my letter to Margaret and Roman<\/a> or that time<a href=\"https:\/\/mendingmisconceptions.com\/2017\/05\/29\/he-acknowledged-me\/\"> a waiter acknowledged me<\/a>).&nbsp; Even if they seem simple or silly.&nbsp; It&#8217;s nice to know that, despite what we&#8217;re taught as children, there are some cool strangers out there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This was originally posted on May 28, 2017, at 5:00 PM on blogger (this was also the last entry posted there). *** Last Monday, I was on my way home (to my actual home, not the dorm) after my first, and painful final exam of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,10],"tags":[16,22,29],"class_list":["post-155","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","category-public-transportation","tag-acceptance","tag-daily-life","tag-heartwarming"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=155"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=155"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=155"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilymordaunt.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=155"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}